RELATIONSHIP
Relationships and human beings are complex, and even the best of relationships will have ups and downs. None of us are given a handbook on the intracies of relationships, dating, finding love and compatible partners, not ignoring the changes we go through when faced with divorce or becoming widowed. The majority of us tend to follow patterns learnt from our childhood, how our parents communicated to peers or personal experiences.
21st CENTURY
dating dilemmas
ASK THE HARD QUESTIONS
This especially applies to women who are seeking a committed relationship. As a Matchmaker and coach for nearly two decades it was a common theme for women not to be up front with the type of relationship they were ultimately seeking. Resulting in multiple dates with the wrong people, not on the same trajectory path and becoming involved emotionally before "asking the hard questions"
Remember, if you are set on a committed relationship someone only interested in casual dating has a sell by date, you are two opposites. If you ask the hard questions early on, and he vanishes, so be it, you have saved yourself wasting your time and riding that emotional roller-coaster to nowhere.
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE?
OLD DATING PATTERNS BECOME A HABIT
By unlocking the key to your repeated relationship patterns, we can delve a little deeper into your subconscious and identify the root causes behind your dating history, behaviours and selection process. Together, we'll unearth the influence of your parents and extended family, shedding light on the examples that have shaped all your relationships until now.
If you would like to explore your relationship past and repeated relationship patterns to increase your opportunities of putting the past firmly behind you, I’m ready to embark on a transformational journey with you.
DATING PATTERNS
Why do we repeat dysfunctional dating patterns? What we learn from our earliest relationships sets a pattern. Unaware of this they become an integral part of us.
ATTACHMENT STYLES
All relationships are determined by our attachment style, Anxious/fearful, Avoidant, Disorganized and Secure, which one is yours?
LONG DISTANT DATING
The LD relationship has become more common and with the introduction of dating apps in the last decade it has catapulted with the ease of virtual partnering.